Is Accepting Ourselves Enough?
I recently found the book, The Fat Girl's Guide to Life, and from the opening quote, "Make your choice. Are you ready to be strong?" (quoting Buffy the Vampire Slayer, one of my favorite TV shows of all time), I thought this is the next book that will reaffirm everything I do, everything that I am, and support me in how I love myself AND my body! Well I was wrong. I guess even the girls who take back the word fat and "accept" their bodies still don't do enough to love them. What's the difference between acceptance and love? Acceptance doesn't prompt any action; it feels like, I've accepted that this is the way my life is. It isn't engaged! Love is about connecting to, appreciating, doting upon, finding affection for, and sitting in awe of something, and more importantly someone. So I say, I'm proud that there are fellow fat girls out there, but if all we're going to do is accept our bodies, I say I have better things to do. I'm here in this world LOVING every inch of me, and that, to me, is a more Body Positive thing to do.